My wife says she is too tired for sex. So why has she bought a vibrator? | Sex

[ad_1] I love my wife but our sexual relationship isn’t great right now. She complains about being too tired to make love, as we have two kids (ages one and two) and we’re living in a one-bedroom apartment while our house is being remodelled. I accidentally found out she has ordered a wand massager – … Read more

How can I approach my best friend’s wedding when I am so worried about her future happiness? | Relationships

[ad_1] My best friend is getting married in a few months and I am so sad. We have known each other since childhood, and while it is true that I probably hold too high standards for my loved ones, her fiance seems like a poor choice of life partner. He is combative, argumentative, immature and … Read more

Financial bullying can ruin a marriage: first-person stories | US personal finance

[ad_1] A survey of about 1,000 Americans found that one in 10 would describe their partner as a financial bully. Our readers, however, insist that that might be a label easily assigned to a partner who is simply being financially responsible. When we put out a call to out readers last week to see if … Read more

How we met: ‘He saved my life – and he’s drop-dead gorgeous’ | Dating

[ad_1] In 1995, Patrick was a professor at the Chinese University of Hong Kong, teaching behavioural sciences. One night in March, he was invited to a friend’s house for a dinner party. “I didn’t realise it was a matchmaking thing. I was tired and nearly pulled out, but the host was very insistent,” he says. … Read more

‘I had a crush on my sexy manager’: seven readers on their summers of love | Relationships

[ad_1] ‘I know he’s the one for me’ After just one week of living in New York, the city locked down, and a summer of love seemed unlikely. I did go on a series of virtual dates, with around 20 guys over four months; some were funny, kind and smart, and some were a little … Read more

My partner cheated on me – then told me about the fantastic lover she’d found | Life and style

[ad_1] I have been with my partner for three years, and a month ago she cheated on me. We discussed the matter and from that I discovered that this guy she cheated with is well endowed, lasted longer than me and has a huge sex drive. She now wants us to fix things, but I … Read more